Thursday, January 14, 2016

Benners at ONE Year


One-year stats: 

 24 lbs, 3 oz. (86 percentile)

32 inches (99 percentile)

teeth count: 5

clothes size: 18 months

diaper size: 4

shoe size: 6

walking:  not quite

words: mama, dada, and lots of babbles

bottles:  working on none


Ben had his one-year wellness check in May.  For the most part, all things are great - he is perfectly healthy and developmentally right on track.

We did start to notice a rash on Ben's ankle and by the crease in his knee.  It didn't seem to bother him as he never itched it or messed with it, but it also wouldn't go away.  I tried aquaphor, thick lotion, diaper cream.. nothing helped (or hurt) it.  The doctor looked at it and said it looked like a form of excema.  I also explained how there will be times when he gets a rash on his face after eating.. we can't really narrow it down to which foods are causing it and it's not all the time (ie salsa and ketchup have brought on the rash, but not every time he eats those things).  The doctor said how these skin conditions seemed to come together and that it was likely a skin sensitivity to high-acidity foods - like tomatoes, not an allergy or a problem when ingested.  He doesn't seem to be bothered and it goes away within a couple hours.  She said we could put aquaphor on his face before eating those foods so they wouldn't make much contact with his skin.. but if it doesn't seem to bother him, then it wasn't much to be concerned about.  As far as the other rashes, she gave us a strong cream to use sparingly for those times when it just won't go away.  We'll see how it goes!

Ben hasn't quite figured out the whole walking thing.  He stands a lot, walks around furniture, and even takes a couple steps.. but that's where he draws the line.  He does most of his practicing in the evenings when we are getting settled down for bed.  I really think he'd be walking right now if we weren't always so busy and active.  Crawling is quick and he can't take any chances of missing anything throughout the day..

He has found his voice and is often whining (eeh.. eeh..) for and about everything!  It can get real old real fast!  We remember the other kids doing that, but Ben seems louder and more often (which is probably because there are others around!). 

Ben is a good little eater, always willing to try new things and generally easy to please.  He loves fruit snacks and bedtime popcorn surprise (popcorn mixed with a surprise, usually a handful of M&M's).

He is a master crawler, so crazy fast.  And stairs?  No problem!  He can't wait to get to them at his grandparents' houses.  

He loves to go.  Go for walks, go for car rides, go to the park, just go.  

Shoes.  Shoes.  Shoes.  Ben LOVES his shoes.  He can't wait to get them on in the morning and so quickly figured out which were his and would proudly bring them to someone to help him put them on.  

Ben gives the best hugs.  He wraps his chubby little arms so tight around my neck and squeezes tight.  And usually follows with a big "mm-ah" - slobbery smooth.

Ben likes to dance and we often catch him jamming to a tune in the car.  He follows Rudy and Avery's lead very well.  

Ben is a happy, happy little guy.  He loves to laugh and be silly.  He plays peek-a-boo whenever he can, or "where's Ben?" as he is finding behind his hands.  He loves to pretend like something is gone and laugh when he finds it.. like his belly or his toy train or stuffed animal.  He is such a joke-ster :)

Rudy and Avery are his world.  He is SO persistent to be right in there with them, objecting loudly and strongly if he isn't included in whatever activity they are doing.  It can definitely get difficult at times, but he isn't letting anything hold him back - even his age!  Rudy and Avery take good care of him though.  It melts my heart the way they can be so kind and gentle with him or play at his level just to make him happy.  It really is the sweetest thing.  We'll see how long that lasts! 





Celebrating Bubbers!


Can ANYONE believe our little (big) Ben turned 1 already?!
We started out Ben's birthday with homemade muffins and a little birthday tune.

Then the kids and I took on the task of cleaning out the car - a fun trip through the car wash (I'm 30 and still think it's cool to go through) and a double batch of quarters to get all the vacuuming done!
All so this little guy could graduate to his forward-facing carseat!  It's not so obvious in this picture, but he was THRILLED about it!
We met Dad for lunch and otherwise, we had a nice day together at home :)

Lots of love for the birthday boy!


The next day was party-day!
We had a nice, simple, close friends and family cook-out at home to celebrate Mr. Ben.
Rudy and Avery were a big help in getting everything set up!
Dog themed, for our little bulldog :)

The spread

The guest of honor's seat :)


Getting all set up...


Yum!

Look at that face :)


I just cannot even begin to explain how much I love this happy guy ..

Our attempt at a family shot (at least we tried!)
A little apprehensive about this cake stuff..

Present-time!
 

A ball for the win - Ben's favorite (with trucks/trains/cars coming in close second)!




Where does the time go?! 
My sister-in-law says her Dad tells her it goes to Cleveland.  We are planning a trip there together sometime soon...


May Days 2015


Here's a glimpse of what our May Days looked like
(Ok, so maybe some of this is late April... )

How we take walks these cool afternoons... 

Rudy played in his first season of Spring Soccer through the YMCA.  Definitely a step up from Happy Feet, but still toddler soccer..
Rudy's biggest fan and cheerleader

Ben's just happy to go for the snacks...



Just a couple of dogs...

Papa Ray's birthday!  We don't pass up any opportunity for cake and singing!

And speaking of birthdays, a birthday party at Ergadoozy with Rudy's classmates... fun afternoon!

Benners... so happy to finally get his hands on my coffee cup (usually how I feel in the early morning hours)!
Oh just being the best baby ever, feeding himself lunch...

And I'm officially old... I couldn't resist taking pictures of the flowering plants we planted...



The Davlin's joined us for a trip to the Firehouse one rainy Sunday morning...
It was pretty entertaining listening to Rudy show his friends around and explain everything, as if he ran the show..

I get some pretty great pics from Gran when she is watching the kids.  I love getting little messages of what they are up to... Here's a couple of them spending the evening at Gran and Papa's - sunbathing after running through the sprinkler and watering the garden... two of their favorite things!


Avery made her first visit to a nail salon.  A friend of mine and I went for her birthday and at the last minute I decided to bring Avery along with me.  She loved it.  She was so quite and nervous at first, but did a great job.  When they finished she looked happily at her hands and said, "I can't wait to show my Daddy."  The workers around us and I couldn't believe how darn cute she sounded!

And in case I ever forget... this is what it looks like to change sheets on our bed...
...full involvement from all three helpers!

So sweet! (when they are sleeping) :)

Just Benners and I at the store, a real treat for the both of us!

Lovin' the park swings! :)

Who is that?!
Oh, it's just Avery..phew!

Look at that sweet boy...

A morning at the Old Capital Art Fair with Gran... we enjoyed painting and shopping in the "kid only" tent
and Ben enjoyed his veggie straws
Since the Art Fair was downtown and Dad was working, we made a quick stop to say hi and of course, climb through the fire truck..


My favorite time of the month of May... DERBY DAY!!


We had a fun day prepping for our Derby Party the next day... with the help of Gran, Julia and Uncle Kurt the Great



Watching the Run for the Roses requires lots of pretty roses to decorate
Before the tables were LOADED with food


Dressed in our best :)
Bubbers :)
Cousins!…although missing quite a few :(
 It's all the Sames to me!
 (and again, I am obviously old because I was so happy the dogwood was in bloom that weekend AND it was in the background of these pictures)
Who could resist those "awesome pants"?! (the actual brand name of them)
What a fun, memorable party!!

Ok, so Mother's Day may be taking over as my favorite time of May... especially when you have the best kids and husband ever who treat you so well :)
The artwork on the right Rudy made me and when he handed it to me he proudly said, "Here Mom.  This says, 'Happy Mudder's Day.  I wuv you.  I like drawing pictures for you for Mudder's Day because I wuv you.'"  *swoon*

Rudy's "last" day of Tu/Th pre-K
I say "last" day because it was the last day I would be home before the end of the year.  John and I were headed to Anguilla for a few nights and would miss the last day.  But if I had to be anywhere else, Anguilla wasn't so bad!

With our trip quickly approaching, I made up an elaborate story (that sort of got away from me.. oops)... let me back up...
I explained to the kids that we would be going far, far away for a few days.  I could see the nerves in their eyes... so, off the cuff, I told them they could pick out a stuffed animal and that I had a special potion that would make the animal magic… the way it would work was that if they gave their animal a hug, Mom and Dad would be able to feel it from far, far away.  So if they missed us and needed a hug, they could squeeze their animal tight and we would feel it.  Awesome, right?  This is where it gets weird.. the morning we were set to leave, the kids were anxious to use the potion.  I had NOTHING in mind for the potion.. like seriously, what the hell was I going to do to create this magic?!  I was pacing around the kitchen trying to come up with something when I saw the sugar packets... I quickly dumped a few of those in a baggie with 3 beads, told the kids the animals had to be placed in this special box and that we had to add the beads and sprinkle the magic potion on them... (Avery said, "It looks like sugar.." and John chimed in under his breath, "Avery is calling bullshit.")  After the potion was added, they had to be placed in a dark closet ..so in the pantry they went along with my phone that I had set the alarm for 1 minute later with a very "magical" sounding tune.  I wish I had video of the look on their eyes when they heard the "magic" working.. we rushed in to gave it a try... Sure enough, John and I could feel the hugs!  The magic potion worked!!
Our view from our room when we arrived... with no filter... heaven 

where we had breakfast each morning
Dinner out our first night... 
Me and the beautiful bride
Anguilla was UNREAL.  I loved everything about it and would go again in a heartbeat.  I loved the island, the resort, the people, the adventures (like a boat ride to a giant sand-bar and snorkeling in the sea).  The wedding was beautiful and absolutely perfect.  John and I had such a great time and didn't realize how much we needed that time together until we were there.

While we loved being away, we looked forward to pictures of the kids and hearing about what they were up to... 

looks about right :)


Fun at the bookstore!


Rudy's actual last day - fieldtrip to Baskin Robbins for a celebratory ice cream treat!

…As much as I love Anguilla, I was very ready to get home to them!

More of my beautiful blooming flowers.. and even more beautiful Avery :)



John took Rudy to see Pete play the Sliders one evening after Rudy's game... this is the text I got from him...
Not much makes Rudy as happy as baseball!  And knowing a player, getting special treatment from the team ("Mom!  Pete's friends gave me knucks!"), getting to run the bases... it was all so exciting!

I decided to make an effort to visit more parks... and to be brave enough to take all three by myself.  My first attempt was at Southwind Park.  Here we are eating lunch on the bench and looking for ducks...

...not playing on the playground because, as you can see, we would have been swallowed in that crowd!  When we first got there, it was just us and a few other small kids and their moms... perfect.  Within about 15 minutes, 7... SEVEN... bus loads of kids were dropped off.  Apparently it was an end of year fieldtrip to the park... 
We decided to spend a morning at the mall next, take a week off the park circuit after that one :)


Making Ben laugh... what an awesome game!  The kids spent a good week trying to be the first to get Ben to laugh every time we got in the car... it was a smile-filled week for us all!

"Uh-oh!"  - as if that was on accident... Ben's favorite mealtime game

When I have three at the park, I'm lucky if I snap any pictures!  But I did get this one, per Avery's request..

I've been working out at the gym more regularly and been lucky enough to meet some other moms who are there a lot of the same times/days as us... one day while running together, we started talking about activities with the kids and she told me about their plan for the week - painting with cars and learning different tracks one day, then a car wash the next... how fun!  I gathered up supplies and we did the same!
The calm before the storm of a mess...
At first, Rudy and Avery followed instructions and were so entertained and curious about what tracks each car would make...


I especially loved the idea of this project because it could involve Bubbers.  He LOVES playing with cars, frequently making a "Vroom, vroom" sound as he wheels cars around the house...
But then it escalated quickly and became body painting!


... and body surfing...
At which point there was no going inside for lunch so picnic lunch it was!

"Take us picture.  This so fun!!"  I just love those genuine, summer smiles!
Attempting a picture with Ben, too...
And then it was time for baths!  They were WIRED!
Fun morning, worn out kids, baths already done for the night... winning all around that day!!

"What is this and WHY would you give it to me?!"

Three generations phone surfing

End of Season Soccer Dinner
So proud of his trophy and certificate :)

Happy boy, trying out his new birthday hat